Thursday, June 21

Politically Incorrect

I grew up in a home with a developmentally delayed, epileptic sister. One word that was absolutely taboo at our house was "retarded." It was as bad or worse than any curse word to my parents and it was not to be tolerated. Our parents taught us at an early age to have respect for all walks of life, no matter their race, religion, or physical or mental disabilities. This is why I have such a difficult time understanding people who continue to use terms that are both politically and morally incorrect. I realize that in essence the words retarded and developmentally delayed mean the same thing, a tomato is still a tomato no matter how many times you call it a blueberry. But over the course of time some morally deficient person took a perfectly good word and used it as an insulting derogatory slur. So we changed the word to lend a more favorable meaning, and disperse the negativity surrounding it. In the future though,some moron will come along and find a way to reduce today's politically correct terminology to something equally rude and offensive. Changing the term is certainly not going to change the reality of what these words imply to some people. Some idiots just like to go against the grain, whether they speak from hatred ignorance or intolerance, rocking the boat is where they are most comfortable! I am sure though, that anyone with a brain in their head can see that visually impaired and developmentally delayed sound a whole lot better than blind and stupid!

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brenna said...

We were brought up the same way in our house. It was just wrong to make fun of anyone in that situation or use that word as an insult.
My father told me something when I was younger that stuck with me. I'll never forget it. One of the girls that he knew when he was younger always made fun of the 'developmentally delayed'. He said she was really really nasty. Come to find out, years later when she had her own child, he was that way.
I'm sure she will regret the way she acted for the rest of her life. It wasn't so funny anymore.

meleah rebeccah said...

i loved that last sentence. perfect!

Comedy + said...

Right you are. Clods are what I call them. These are the folks that feel superior. These could be the same folks that end up in an accident and never quite recover. Then they get a taste of their own medicine. Sad, but they are just clods if they make fun of others with any kind of disability. Your parents taught you well. :)

Tinamtl said...

I agree!

paisley said...

i just think it is unfortunate that we even have to have this conversation... sometimes i am so disheartened with the things going on in this world......

Badthing1 said...

Oh Dear Certifiable, I used to work with disabled children and adults and I so feel for you deep down inside my heart.

Just keep talking about this issue and educating the masses in the hope that your words will finally penetrate their brains. HUG

Marilyn

Random Magus said...

I think sometimes its more a case of not being taught otherwise. If everyone had families who sat them down and taught them to respect the feelings of others, I'm sure we'd have a kinder world